All About Chier

August 5/2010, do believe it is time to update some of this again. Below are thoughts from 2 years ago all I did was change the date and my age. Much has changed since I last wrote the words below. As many of you know we moved 2 years ago into the house of our dreams and out into the country. We absolutely love it here the quiet, the people the entire style of life is different. It's a new subdivision but surrounded by farm land mostly crop farmers. I have never been more happy than I am right now and father as well. So lets see some of the changes here for me and about me are as follows. I do believe that I am finally letting go of the past and getting on with the present. I am learning to let go, life is to short to dwell on the past and worry about things that have been and I can never change. I try to surround myself with happy caring people. I have learned forgiveness, but if you choose to be a negative I can now let you go. I don't need the stress nor do I need to hear your constant whining and complaining. I love my family above all and there is nothing I would not do for them. I know I can completely count on my husband and son. My husband is the most loving caring man I know and his patience knows no boundary's. He is my rock! We have been married for 37 years and together for 40 and I can not imagine my life with out him.

My health is not the best the arthritis gets worse each day but I do make it threw. I have the constant love and support of my family. Not to mention some good med's. I love my friends both my on line friends and the ones I have here. We don't entertain as much as we used to mostly because of my health issues but still lead a busy and full life. We enjoy day tripping and antiquing or just spending time on the deck. So I think this brings thing up to date a little. Like my page I am in the autumn of my life, my absolute favorite time. Life has been one amazing journey and for the most part I have enjoyed the ride. Nothing is perfect but that is life and we are constantly changing and I hope that I am now a much better person.

1.Real name Sharon ( Meaning:
(Sharon, a 2-syllable girl's name of Hebrew origin, means: Fertile; princess, plain of Sharon.)

2.I was born, May 5th, 1948
May's flower is the lily of the valley. Birthstone Emerald.

Jan. 1, 2009 Here I am 61 years young and very soon I will be adding another year to this. I realize a list no longer defines me I am a constantly changing creature. But pretty much settled and most of all where I want to be. I am for the first time in my life truly happy and content. I have known pure joy only once in my life and that was the day my son was born. I love my husband more than life itself he is the most loving and patient man I know. But there are times he frustrates me to no end, and I know doubt do the same to him. My son is a constant joy and sorrow, he is moody and sullen most of the time and can be the most loving person and the most cruel at times. But I could not imagine not having him in our lives. And nothing can or will ever change my love for him.

And me I am still a work in progress all though I am 100 times better than I once was. It took me a very long time to grow up. My likes and dislikes have changed a lot over the last ten years. And I think some are for the better. I no longer need things to define who I am. Being with my family is what is important and spending time with friends. I do however like my creature comforts and think I deserve them at this stage in my life.

My health is not the best but I manage to cope and get through the pain. Mostly due to my husband and some good med's. LOL :)

I am passionate in my beliefs. And I will fight to the end for what is right.

My insecurity's are still to many, but I am slowly getting over most of this. I am what I am and all I ask is for a little understanding and a lot of patients.